Oh, I don't think that Tory was working against her, I only think that she was in no frame of mind to deal with her at the moment. Just think you had some really, really shitty day - and I think having everyone learn that you're dying (which is a dreadful thing in and on itself) again qualifies as shitty day - and then there comes the thing that broke the camel's back. I think Tory's and her behaviour was just too much at this moment. And if it hadn't been Tory she might have snapped about something else. And no, it doesn't make it right at all. I'm just saying I have some sympathy for her.

ANd I loooove your icon btw.